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What men want
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 WE DEMAND EQUAL RIGHTS FOR ALL, MEN,
WOMEN AND CHILDREN.

"Man was born free, but everywhere Abuser Moms have him in chains."
with apologies to Rousseau

© Copyright J Kirby Inwood 1999 Permission to reproduce this list of
demands is granted provided credit is given to the author, J Kirby Inwood (416) 923-1028.
 

  • We want true equality for all women, which includes accountability,responsibility and the right to pay their own way.
  • We want equal opportunity and the right to be awarded sole custody of our children.
  • We want interim custody to mean just that and to end the court's practice of making interim custody permanent custody on the expedient premise of "preserving the status quo and not upsetting or uprooting the children."
  • We want shared parenting as the minimum de facto standard for child care in divorce.
  • We want an end to the "tender years" shibboleth.
  • We want a full and comprehensive definition for court use of "the best interests of the child."
  • We want the presumption in court and in society that fathers are as good for their children as mothers.
  • We want freedom from the presumption of guilt in all family law and related criminal code matters.
  • We want an end to ex parte restraining orders based only on the word of a spouse.
  • We want freedom from debtor's prisons which are only used against men.
  • We want women to be jailed on the same basis as men for similar crimes, including contempt through the  denial of court access and non removal orders.
  • We want women who make false accusations of sexual harassment or date rape or any other false claims subject to the same penalties the man would have incurred had he been found culpable.
  • We want the courts to stop giving women light or no sentences just because they have children. A criminal is a criminal and a crime is a crime regardless of gender.
  • We want the discriminatory Domestic Violence courts shut down at once.
  • We want mandatory true gender sensitivity training for judges, and the termination of courses run by feminists.
  • We want the police to stop automatically charging the man at domestic violence calls.
  • We want anti male police manuals which force the police to presume the man is guilty at domestic  violence scenes withdrawn.
  • We want police trained and required to honestly investigate the facts and recognize that women are the abusers in more then half the domestic violence cases.
  • We want an end to the pervasive anti male, anti father, pro mother bias of courts, judges and lawyers.
  • We want mandatory transcribing of all family court motions & hearings
  • We want an end to family law hearings in chambers where the parties are excluded.
  • We want caps on child support payments.
  • We want equal funding for men's rights, men's studies at Universities, men's issues directorates in the government.
  • We want the right to be fathers to our kids without interference from anyone.
  • We want freedom from exploitation by women who use men as breeders and wallets.
  • We want shelters for men.
  • We want to be free to be men without apology.
  • We want to be free to hide or express our feelings our way, not the way some woman says we must.
  • We want mandatory DNA paternity testing of ALL births.
  • We want the same right to opt out of paternity which women currently exercise in opting out of maternity. That means that if a woman insists on bearing a child which the apparent or putative father does not want, then that man is completely and legally free to opt out of all financial or any other obligations to that child. We are not suggesting imposed abortions.
  • We want women making false allegations to be jailed for the same amount of time the man would have received had he been falsely convicted. We want damages and punitive awards on top of all our costs.
  • We want rock solid DNA proof as the only acceptable proof of guilt in rape cases. No more false convictions on the basis of some vindictive, delusional or spurned woman's word.
  • We want the excuse of infanticide removed from the criminal code. Women who kill babies are murderers and child abusers and deserve life sentences.
  • Lactating women are responsible for their crimes. Lactation is not a defence.
  • We want women treated equally to men and held accountable in contracts, child support payments, legal obligations and rights.
  • We want mandatory pre nuptial agreements which cannot be repudiated.
  • We want the right of first refusal of full custody for the party being left or being divorced.
  • We want an end to Affirmative Action employment which is really just newspeak for white men need not apply.
  • We want massive programs to educate society to the importance of men and fathers in the family.
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"Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag and begin slitting throats."
H L Mencken (1860 -1956)

FIGHT JUDICIAL FRAUD

Fathers you are not alone and you are not crazy! The system is corrupt.
It is controlled by Abuser Moms.

As a man or a father can you expect to be treated fairly in family or
criminal court? In a word, NO! Family  Court judges are committing judicial fraud every day.The courts are completely biased in favour of Abuser  Moms and men can not expect justice, fairness, honesty and often they cannot even expect simple courtesy from the Canadian Judiciary. You are not alone. The courts are maltreating all men and all fathers. If your lawyer has not told you this get a new lawyer. If your lawyer has not told you that access and non removal orders are worthless, get another lawyer.

"It takes a village to raise a child, Because mothers are too lazy to do it themselves."
- JKI

Stop talking. Take action! Do something constructive to change the law.
- J Kirby Inwood, Toronto.

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